Yesterday we had an argument in the middle of the sidewalk, and we had squash salad. The squash salad made some degree of sense. The argument, however, was a chimera, a figment with no fangs. It came like a squall at sea sending the mooring lines whipping in the wind as the rain falls sideways and passed just as quickly. I felt silly gritting my teeth, sweating in the midday sun. I could feel eyes peering out of the coffee house, real or imagined. I turned and walked back to the car, dazed. We sat in the car while I wept a disoriented apology. My carefully lined eyes were mottled black and red. I sniffled and put on my sunglasses. We walked back across the street holding hands & had coffee. In the end, we all speak our very own native tongue. Miscommunication, some garbling of symbols and sounds, is inevitable. We can forgive ourselves and each other for that.
That evening he studied in the office adjacent to the kitchen while I shaved the squash on my mandoline. I pounded chicken breasts thin, roasted kale and dressed it with tahini, feta, miso, and lemon. I coated the chicken with black sesame seeds, stuffed it fat with the kale, browned it, and baked it. I mixed the squash salad gently with my hands. We sat down together and ate. Cooking supper is my love language. It's universal. No one misunderstands a squash salad.
Summer Squash Salad with Mint, Feta, & Black Truffle Salt
serves 2
Translucent ribbons of yellow summer squash, a handful of fresh mint, heady black truffle salt, thin slivers of shallot, and salty crumbles of feta tossed with a glug of olive oil and white balsamic, this simple salad's virtue lies in the quality of its ingredients. This salad was inspired by one I had (and helped make...squash slicer extrodinaire!) at Sunday Suppers with Nikole Herriott. The combination of squash and mint was inspired. This salad isn't an exact science, make it to suit your taste.
1 yellow squash (zucchini would work well too), sliced 1/8" thick
1 small shallot, thinly sliced
1-2 Tbsp fresh mint, roughly chopped
1/4 cup feta
splash of white balsamic vinegar
glug of good extra virgin olive oil
black truffle salt to taste
Toss all the ingredients together in a bowl. Allow to sit for about 10 minutes covered in the fridge for the flavors to meld & serve.






sometimes the only solution to a nonsensical fight is a good meal. I've learned that lesson, too.
ReplyDeletesitting down to a meal is just so *civilized*!
Delete" It came like a squall at sea sending the mooring lines whipping in the wind as the rain falls sideways and passed just as quickly." Beautiful put and utterly appropriate.
ReplyDeleteI've been in literal squalls & it really is utterly appropriate... a violent storm out of no where that just dissipates in minutes... terrifying while it's happening... and then calm once it's passed.
DeleteBeautiful salad! I love the idea of punching up summer squash with feta and mint.
ReplyDeleteOther herbs & cheeses would work well too... but I really like this combo... especially the mint! I'd like to try it w/ goat cheese at some point.
DeleteSuch a stunning presentation! Even though I don't like squash as much .. I still wanna just grab that plate!
ReplyDeleteI don't like squash much either! I generally find it boring. But it's so nice when sliced thin... and it's a lovely blank canvas to play with other flavors... kind of like fake pasta.
DeleteFood helps everything :) The salad is beautiful and looks delicious too :)
ReplyDeleteI find that no matter what happens in a day as long as we sit down to a civilized meal & have a cuddle at night, it's a good day.
DeleteI make something really similar with thin ribbons of courgette, raw garlic and chilli. The combination of raw veg and salty feta is so delicious. Your photos are beautiful, as are the accompanying words - so pleased to have found your blog :-)
ReplyDeleteI'm totally throwing some chili flakes & garlic into the next incarnation of this salad! & I actually prefer courgette to yellow squash. I think it takes mint & truffle for me to get excited about squash! And cheese. Always cheese!
DeleteLove this. You captured a moment perfectly.
ReplyDeleteAnd your salad looks lovely!
Food is love, there's no doubt about that. I guess me and the boy take the same approach to arguments. We've become more of the kind that leave the house momentarily, without banging doors, and come back 5 minutes later with an apology. However, it seems like the tension doesn't disappear until we sit together and eat. Lovely salad!
ReplyDeleteI appreciate the civility of sitting down together for a meal. And offering someone food is basically a truce.
DeleteI love those pictures especially those shallots with purple whirls looking perfectly gorgeous. U know what they say "food is the way to a man's heart" but then I think its the way to anyone's heart :-)
ReplyDeleteThere's a reason the whole cooking with love cliché exists! It's ultimately a nurturing art, whether it's for friends, family, or strangers.
DeleteThis looks absolutely beautiful, and you write so nicely! I'm very pleased to have stumbled across your blog today :)
ReplyDeleteThanks! I'm pleased to have just found yours... I think we have a similar aesthetic! Love your taste.
DeleteGreat looking recipe. Thanks!
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